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As with any goal you are trying to achieve, you first need to know what you want, and the dating game is no different.
So what do you want when scrolling through dating apps?
First, you want to match.
Then, you want her number.
And finally, you want to meet.
That’s it. Three things. Keep it simple.
In general, women want you to like them, to desire them, but not to need them.
They also want a man that can make decisions.
As far as the texting game goes, she doesn’t want boring conversation. Opening with “Hi” and “How are you” are a waste of time.
It is far better to come straight out with a question to get her involvement, such as “Let’s cut the bullshit. How adventurous are you?”
Instead of asking how she is or how her day went, try something like “What are you looking forward to this month?” or “What kind of food are you craving right now?”
Basing your conversation on her bio is a good idea since it personalizes things.
Oh, and don’t ever send dick pics.
There is no perfect response.
Everyone and every situation are different, but make sure you ask the right questions with the intention of moving things forward.
Remember, get a match, get her number, arrange to meet.
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