The Clitoris: What You See Is Only The Beginning

The Clitoris Is So Much More Than a “Tiny Love Button”

What you see on the surface—that small “head”—is just the tip of the iceberg.

The clitoris is made up of three major parts: the head, the shaft, and the base.

These components include both visible and hidden structures that stretch from the top of the pubic bone all the way toward the anus. And every part plays a role in female pleasure.

Ironically, the best way for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse… is to not have intercourse.

At least, not right away.

Instead, consider making oral sex the main event and letting intercourse take a backseat.

Men need to understand that there are far more effective ways to help a woman orgasm than using a penis alone. We need to bring our mouths, our bodies, and yes, even our minds into the experience.

Don’t think of this as a limitation. When you take intercourse off its pedestal, you open the door to more creative, connected, and pleasurable experiences.

It’s actually freeing. You no longer have to stress about size, stamina, or performance. And when that pressure disappears, it’s easier to relax, be present, and build a deeper connection with your partner.

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